Monday, October 24, 2011

He's a keeper!

It's been "out" for a few weeks now...I'm expecting our second child (eeeeee!!!!! :D :D :D). But this is my fifth pregnancy. Yeah, not great odds. There was a time we really weren't sure if we would have more than one child. I learned to soak in every second of my sweet Lily Pants, and I grew up a lot. Growing up sucks, but then things start to click together and you start feeling like you aren't just out treading water anymore.

Anyway, I'm pregnant! We found out in early August after three long months of trying (I know this isn't long to some, but when I've always gotten pregnant on the first or second month, it felt like forever, plus we had been trying for over a year to keep a pregnancy) that we were expecting. Cue the insane, stomach-clutching worrying! I did blood draws, early ultrasounds, and took a bajillion different pills every night. Then I started getting nauseous. Oh, thank goodness! I loved that constant reminder that everything is ok. I still found myself keeping the baby at arm's length...trying not to think too much about it.

My midwife is amazing. I drive almost two hours to see her (the minimum around here is an hour anyway, so I figured I might as well be driving to someone who knows me, she delivered Lily, and whom I love), and I get reassurance and a hug at every appointment. I hit the second trimester and she celebrated with me when we heard the heartbeat on the doppler.

I'm 16 weeks today, and I still catch myself thinking..."I get to have another baby! Thank you Lord!" Lily will get to be a big sister, I will get to breastfeed again, I will get to have another baby!

Another awesome thing and another big announcement...we bought a house! We close the end of November and will take 2-3 weeks to paint and do some remodeling, then move in. I can't wait to NOT move again! Josh and I have been married 3.5 years, and this will be our 4th move in that time. Not cool! Hopefully this house will last us 10 years until we can save up for our forever home in the country. The house is on an acre, with apple trees, grape vines, raspberry bushes, and a massive garden. Hopefully within the next year we will add a chicken coop, more apple trees, peach trees, pear trees, and possibly a horse pen. :) Should be an interesting journey and I look forward to sharing it here!

Wednesday, October 5, 2011

Bench Dilemna

There's this little thing called Junk Jaunt that happens every September out here. And it's dangerous. Aside from the crazy Beverly Hillbillies-esque pickup and trailers and their insane drivers, it's dangerously easy to spend a LOT of money on...well...junk.

I spent one hard-earned dollar on a bench that is just plain ugly. I saw the potential, though, and forked over a dollar (actually, I forked over a twenty and she handed me back $19, because I was silly and didn't break down my $20s beforehand...) and tossed it in the trailer.
The top has about four layers of--something. One of the layers (the bottom on) is cane, the top layer is linoleum. Yeah, linoleum. But I just loved the legs of the bench and thought it would be cute as an end table or padded bench in the Pants' room.I finally got around to ripping off the top couple layers and found cane in horrible shape on the bottom.
It's attached in there pretty good, too, not something I can just rip out, even if I knew if I could add new cane.
So. What do I do? Here are my options:

1) Paint it white and distress it, then add a padded top (after some plywood) and use it as a bench either at the end of Pants' bed or in our small mudroom. I'd probably go with a fun print for Lily's room and brown or something equally easy to hide dirt with for the mudroom.

2) Try to find a new top that matches (?) and paint it to match the rest. If so, where would I find a new top? The bench is so cute and would prefer this option, but I just don't know where I could find a new top. Do they sell those at HD or Lowes? Hmm... Also, if I could find a new top, I could paint it pink or aqua for Pants' room.

I also picked up a *few* other gems, including this medicine cabinet-turned-message center for our mudroom. This one was my first finished project.
It was a white washed wood and not super attractive with ugly, rusted handles and hinges and chipped laminate on the side, and I fixed the laminate, changed out the hinges and knobs, and painted it white, then distressed and stained it. I'll just add some cork board in the sunken parts behind the shutter fronts to be used as a message board. Those hinges and knobs did turn my $5 medicine cabinet into a $20 message center, though. :S

And last but not least (in fact, it cost the most), is the "new" dining room table.
I really went out on a limb on this one and spent $100 on it. It's pretty beat up, but I just love the legs, and I see tons of potential. I had originally planned on stripping the entire thing and restaining it to about the same tone, then adding black mismatched chairs. Then I saw this blog post at Crafty, Scrappy, Happy on her dining room table up-cycle. I loooove the white! What do you think about painting the bottom of my table white (um, hello! Wasn't looking forward to stripping those legs!) and having mismatched white chairs instead of black? My biggest concern is that I have a messy toddler and a husband who works in a blue collar field...will I be scrubbing those table legs constantly?

Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Off the deep end

Growing up, if we did something way out there, or completely not normal, we called it going off the deep end. Well, I've gone there and it involved bathroom products...wohooooo! Right?

The two products are some that we've had issues with quite a bit. With toothpaste, Josh has to have an SLS-free toothpaste to keep those cold sores away, and we were spending $5 per tube on Burt's Bee's toothpaste for him. Then for me, the deodorant was the issue. I have super sensitive skin and any deodorant I used, I would get irritation under my arms, no matter what. I had finally settled on Secret Clinical, and it was doing an ok job, but at almost $12 per stick, that's pretty steep!

Throw a little Simple Mom into the mix. Making my own toothpaste? I mean, seriously. WHY would I go and do a crazy thing like that? Thriftiness, I tell ya, I blame it on my mom for making my thrifty! Here is the recipe I use. Ok. It was a good thing for you all that I didn't write a blog about this in the first couple days of using this. It tastes nasty. Like, I gagged through the first few uses. But ya know what? I got used to it and we actually prefer it now. Our teeth feel cleaner, and after using regular toothpaste while traveling over the weekend, I realized that we were so used to that coating you get from normal toothpaste. I think I'll play with the flavoring next time and see how it goes, but at least it's cheaper and it works for Josh!

Next, since I had all the ingredients, I made my own deodorant. Here is the recipe I used (yes, I'm kind of a Simple Mom freak), and we both loved this from the get-go. Josh works a physically demanding job out in the heat, so he needed great protection from both sweating and odor, and this does it for him! Plus, I haven't had a single red bump since using this. It works great while exercising and there's no fragrance, which is generally what caused the irritation to begin with. We do keep it in the fridge for now since our house is warm in the summer, but it's no issue for us.

Hopefully this has inspired you all to go off the deep end. :P

Saturday, June 11, 2011

A new baby

My old Brother sewing machine has been having issues lately, and I was using my mother in law's machine, but we have known that I needed an upgrade for a while. I did my research and decided on the Pfaff Quilt Expression 4.0 to use and abuse next.

The husband and I made a weekend out of it, starting out at a bed and breakfast called the Traditions Inn in Columbus, Nebraska. How CUTE! The rooms were affordable and gave you that country feel even with the great downtown Columbus location. And the owner was just the nicest woman! We were late (thanks to trying to hurry and getting stopped outside of Albion...luckily it was just a warning!), but called ahead to let them know, and she was more than accommodating. We arrived around 9:30 and we debated between just grabbing a snack before bed and supper, but we realized that we were in the "big city" and could actually eat out at a nice restaurant late, so we went for that option.


 Here is a sunset we enjoyed on our way there...the hubs even offered to stop for a picture!



And the super cut planter...need to figure out how to DIY that! Don't you just love the garden tool curtain rods in the breakfast room? I will do this in a mud room someday!

In the morning we headed to our first quilt shop, where I oogled over these gorgeous kaleidoscope quilts.




And then I drooled all over these antique quilts they had for decor. I love the little ruffle in the flower, and the yellow and white...how classic!




And then at the second quilt shop, I was told we weren't allowed to take pictures of the quilts unless we bought the pattern. :( Country Traditions Quilt Shop in Fremont was amazing and they had SO many quilts hung up! And SO much fabric...and SO many Pfaff sewing machines!
Here I am with the new baby! I was thinking about naming her Daphne, because it kind of goes with Pfaff. Ha...so funny. Anyway...She's awesome, and I'm loving having such an advanced machine. I've only barely scratched the surface on what she can do, but I'm hoping to hit one of the free owner's classes at the quilt shop sometime soon to expand what I can do.

I did buy one other little thing at the quilt shop that has made a huge difference in my sewing...fork pins! I am making this quilt from Moda Bake Shop for Lily, and she uses them in the tutorial, so it inspired me to try them out. They are SO handy, and so easy to use! I just love the look of a quilt with the seams pressed open, so now that I have these, I'll be doing that more often.
Happy quilting!!

Thursday, May 26, 2011

Running Momma, Day 2

I'm still a running momma! I was telling Lily to say "Go, Mom, Go!" when we were running, and although it may get old sometime, it was darn cute today. I'm more sore today, but the run felt better. I felt like I was running smoother and not bumbling along, and I didn't feel as self conscious. I have to admit that is part of what has kept me from running before, I don't know what I would look like to other people, but I realized today that it really didn't matter! I am doing something that is good for me and my daughter and I look better out running like a non-runner than I do on the couch. :)

I wore my ball cap the other day and when my head sweated under the hat, it itched, so I went hatless today, and my bangs were all in my face. So next time, I need to find some kind of headband or pin my bangs back. And I need to put shoes on Lily that she can't easily take off and no hat, because I had to stop and pick up the hat or shoes a couple times. Today, I also made myself cool down long enough to drink my whole 24 oz water bottle, and when I got back I didn't feel the need to crash on the floor for a while.

I feel kind of silly writing all of this out, but I want to be able to look back on this when I hit a "I don't want to run!" phase. I feel great today, a little sore, but refreshed and skinny (though I know it's too soon to see any real results).

Tuesday, May 24, 2011

Muddy running shoes

I have them! Yeah! I started C25K today and though my legs feel like jello, I feel great. We are lucky to live right by the park, which has a lot of flat open space to run, so I decided to start there. I downloaded an app on my phone with a countdown feature, and aired up the tires of the jogging stroller. I waited out the rain this morning, then bundled Lily up for my first run.

For the first week of C25K, after a five minute brisk warm up walk, you're supposed to jog/run 60 seconds, then walk 90 seconds and alternate the jog/walk for 20 minutes. Since I haven't ran since high school, I started off slower and walked for more like two minutes in between, but still did the required amount of running. My run was definitely more like a jog, and the third minute of running was nearly excruciating, but by the end, the feeling of accomplishment was huge.

The next day is Thursday, then Saturday, and then next week I'll start doing it Monday, Wednesday, and Friday. Here goes nothin'!

Monday, May 23, 2011

It's the little things

Today, I am grateful for glass jars. Doesn't sound very deep or important, but the big things in life are usually the small things, so keep that in mind. :) I have various glass jars scattered about my kitchen right now in various phases of making something. A dozen and a half old quart jars I bought at a garage sale last weekend sit on the floor by the sink ready to be put in my canning cupboard, a pint jar sits on top of the fridge with sour cream in the works, two pint jars (old ones at that, one of them is square!) are in my crock pot with yogurt in the works, two gallon pickle jars are sitting in my pantry ready to have homemade vanilla made in them, 6 large baby food jars filled with homemade citronella candles are cooling on the counter...

No, not all of my days are filled with this much homemade-ness, but today I thought about my Granny a lot, and how much she made from scratch not because she wanted to, but because she had to. It also made me really want a milk cow, or at least a source for fresh raw milk...

Join us for Gratituesday at Heavenly Homemakers!

Saturday, May 21, 2011

Five Board Bench and Rolling Storage Crate

Let me tell you, if you've never built anything before and have an interest in woodworking, start with this bench! It went together very easily and the places where a beginner would make a mistake are on the sides and therefore easily covered up. :)
We used it about 2 weeks before I decided we needed something to go under it to hold our daughter's shoes. At the time, we had a puppy and I didn't want to just put the shoes in baskets that a puppy could easily get into, so I built the rolling crate from Ana's site as well. 

I used pallet wood that my husband found for me and just cut it all to length to fit in the bench, and it works perfectly. Even more perfect? I made it all by myself. :)

Something new...

I'm going way out on a limb here, writing this out in the open where people could see it and hold me accountable, so bear with me and don't tease me too much.

I'm buying a jogging stroller. And I'm going to start jogging.

Whew. There, I said it. As I write this, I'm freaking out. I'm not a runner, I have never enjoyed it, but that could be because gym class in school is horribly embarrassing for the non-athletic type (ie. me). I joked with a friend about her running ("Why would you want to go and do a thing like that?") and afterwards I realized it was a very inconsiderate thing to say. Anyway, she told me how she started running and that she wasn't a runner either, and it got me to thinking...maybe it's for me too? Then she and other women said how relaxing and stress-relieving and solitary it is to run and that hit the spot for me. I need relaxation and stress-relief and solitude. Badly. This stay at home mom thing is fantastic, and I'm a natural introvert, so the whole not being around people all the time is great for me, but I needed to get out and do something!

So, it comes back to "Why would I want to spend the money on a single jogging stroller when we plan on having another baby soon?" Well, I honestly may not be able to carry any more children, so why should I put my life and my health on hold for a maybe? We lived in Crete for 16 months with no pictures on the walls and very few friends because "We're planning on moving soon." Well, it took 16 months for us to get out of there and it would have been a lot more enjoyable had we hung pictures and made more friends.

Friday, May 20, 2011

A year down...

We started cloth diapering Lily a little over a year ago! She was 8 months, and we were talking about having another one soon, so we wanted to cut our expenses a little bit more, but seriously couldn't come up with another thing to cut out. Josh saw a segment on the local news by a cloth diaper shop and came to me later that day, "Did you know cloth diapers are cheaper than disposables?!" Um, yeah, but there was no way I was going to scrape poop!

Long story short, he talked me into it and we've never looked back. We love cloth diapering and would never go back. For the next few days I plan to go through how we do things and what works for us, but today I plan to tell you about why we switched.


Money! We did our research, and while our worksheet is gone now and I don't remember the exact numbers, it was cheaper for us to switch to a moderately priced one-size cloth diaper (we chose FuzziBunz for daytime and a combination of a Sandy's Motherease fitted with a homemade liner and doubler with Blueberry cover for nighttime) even if we only cloth diapered Lily from 8 months to potty training. In fact, if we kept to our plan, our cloth diapers would be "paid off" in 6-8 months (as in, we would spend the same amount as we would have with disposables). Well, we didn't stick to our plan because we found that Lily's sensitive skin didn't like the BumGenious suede cloth, so there's $80 sitting in the closet, along with the random fitted or cover that we used back when we tried to go cheaper.

What I'm saying is that if you're serious about saving money and willing to do a little bit more work (and really, it is only a little bit more work, not much at all!), check into cloth diapers. Your baby's bum will thank you. :)

Thursday, May 5, 2011

Garden 2011 Update

So there's no need for pictures...just picture a bare spot of dirt, about 40'x35' with strings staked out to mark where our rows will go, plus some watered down rows and a couple bricks marking where we started and ended specific rows. Yep, that's it!

But we did get some things in the ground Sunday! Josh raked the bigger dirt clods to the walkways and I planted peas, carrots, and red onions, and he planted spinach, lettuce, and yellow onions. After we get out of our frost time here, corn, green beans, zucchini, watermelon, pumpkins, more yellow onions (to have two crops), more lettuce and spinach, bell peppers, jalapenos, and tomatoes will join the seeds in the ground (I'll probably buy the rest already started. Next year we are planning on starting our own seeds.).

Last year someone told me that they used newspaper and brown paper bags with straw on top between the rows to keep the weeds down, so we're going to try that with leftover cardboard boxes leftover from moving. The boxes are broken down and we will put the cardboard down probably when we plant the rest of the garden.

Now if we could just get an outside water faucet so I didn't have to haul 5 gallon buckets of water from the shower to the garden...

Tuesday, May 3, 2011

Water works

I'm a big water drinker. Well, after coffee. But other than coffee, I drink a lot of water. I'm trying to cut back on coffee/caffeine, so my Camelbak water bottle has been my best friend. I have this one, and when I started drinking out of it, Lily decided it was the coolest water bottle around, way cooler than her sippy cups. So I checked into getting her one of her own, and though they are labeled for ages 3+, I got her this one to put in her Easter basket. She's had it a little over a week and the girl does not let it out of her sight. We are Camelbak lovers.


But just the other day I was looking into the stainless steel ones to give as gifts (they were on sale for $17ish), and one of the reviewers said to use flavorless denture tablets to clean them. Ah-ha! What an excellent idea! I clean ours every other day or so the best I can with a dish brush, but this way I "know" they are getting clean in those spots I couldn't reach before. I bought a pack of 40 denture tablets for $3.49 at our local (expensive small town) grocery store, so I'm sure you can find them cheaper on Amazon or Walmart.

So...there's another use for denture tablets. The little old lady in the grocery store looked at me like I was crazy when I asked her where the denture tablets were, but when I explained that I heard about cleaning water bottles with them, she said, "I'll have to try that!"

Sunday, May 1, 2011

Just be

How cliche is that? Just be? But really, I need to. Just be.

I've got issues. I won't go into details, but being given three precious babies, then having them taken away will kind of give you issues. But I'm learning...again...how to just be. Just be calm, just be relaxed, just be still and let God in. Let God just handle things. It's way, way easier when I let Him make things work rather than stress and over-think and freak out. I snap at my husband, I zone out when I should be in awe of what my toddler is learning. Just be here, in the moment, and enjoy life. Just be happy.

Take a deep breath and just enjoy life. Embrace the trials, because they make the great times that much better. I look at Lily and think, "How did I get such an amazing little girl?" and it's all God. He gave us her and when I'm busy worrying about if I'll be able to carry another baby, I'm missing out on the cool things Lily is doing right now. Just be content.

Thursday, April 28, 2011

From the girls

There is a group of girls online that has been around the nest for years. We all happened to stick around while others came and went, so we made our own little spot to hang out. They've been there for me through three miscarriages, let me vent, whine, and celebrated each baby with me. They got together and got me this after the last miscarriage. 
It's a Chinese Dogwood, and after doing my research on where and how to plant it, I planted it in a row of peonies at my parents' house (since we are not in a long-term house right now). It got a cage so that none of the dogs (or runaway lawnmowers) got to it, and it's been looking great.

I am so thankful to my friends for the thoughtful gift. It's something happy to look at, and it really lifted my spirits when I received it in the mail (by surprise!) and planted it, and even just thinking of it since I planted it. I am so blessed to have such great friends, even if I've never "met" them. :)

Wednesday, April 27, 2011

If you ever feel like a bad parent...

Make play dough. Your child will gasp and say "Mom!" and dig right in, giving you cheesy grins every 30 seconds. Ok, well, mine did anyway, and it boosted my confidence that I am actually doing a decent job raising our daughter. I mean, it is so simple that it is silly, but I'm serious.

There are a million recipes online for homemade play dough, and I recommend using one of them rather than buying it. It took all of 5 minutes to make (and it was kind of fun :P), and you know exactly what's in it...no weird chemicals or color additives. Here is the recipe I used, but I would imagine that they are all pretty basic.








We don't really have any "real" play dough toys, but the hammer and screwdriver from her tool chest, a spoon with holes in it, and a couple links worked great for the time being. I'll slowly find cool toys for playing, I'm too cheap to just go buy it. :)